It can be tough being alone all the time, but a continual string of one-night stans seems a little odd as well. It’s complicated when you want someone, but seem to only be able to find those willing to stick around for a night. However, with the right strategy, any girl can turn a one-night stand into a real relationship. Just follow the shared techniques, in and out of the bedroom, and your overnight guest will want to stay longer than breakfast.
A one-night stand is what it is, so be good at it. Give him the sex that he will be dreaming about for weeks to come by taking control right away. Show him you are down to get a little rough and you know what you are doing in all the right ways. Climb on top and get a bit loud, include morning sex for a bit of extra remembrance.
Don’t Tell Him
You know that both you and him are going into this as a one-night stand, so do not let him know any differently. Even if you want more, do not let him know your intentions. Keep up the vibe that you are looking for a one and done or he may get overwhelmed. If you let on too much, you will never hear from the guy again.
In the middle of it, look up and smile at him in that fuck me type of way. He will bust a nut in a heartbeat and do whatever he can to make you give him that look again. Smile often as he is pleasing you.
Walk of Shame
One-night stands lead to a walk of shame, no need to be weird. If he asks you to leave in the middle of the night, he is not the one, but if you are still there in the morning and he makes some lame excuse to get you to leave, do not get weird. No nee to be offended because if the roles were reversed you would want him gone too. You are not being dumped, just asked to head home. Walk out with your head held high, you got what you came for, but now he will have a reason to miss you.
If he texts you first, play it cool. Wait a few hours before responding. This is the most effective for a one-night stand. It makes him believe you are busy with life and not waiting by the phone. It also shows that you are independent and he will nee to fight for you. Never be the first to text.
When You Do Answer
When you finally respond hours later, tell him you would love to hang out, but it’s a girls night or you’re just hanging out local for the night. He will have to try harder if he wants to see you again. He may want easy, but make him work for it.
Handling the Booty Call
When he makes that booty call, which he definitely will, don’t make him feel bad, but do not go over either. Tell him you may next time an it sounds great. This will make him wake up in the morning and wonder why he would ever call you for just a booty call.
You nee to develop a mantra if you are going to stick with one-night stands. “You can’t unsuck a dick, so choose wisely…” Your heart is at stake each time you walk into a guy’s bedroom, so if it seems he will just screw you over, walk away. Look for one-night stands with relationship potential, not just a good lay. You cannot force what is not meant to be. Keep in mind that guys are competitive by nature and want a bit of a chase. When you are the prize, they will work for it. You deserve to be treated as a queen, make him want to work for it.